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Every time I think about scheduling a doctor’s appointment I start crying.

Also I got febreeze all over my phone.





Shoutouts to all the bisexual people whose parents are secretly hoping they’ll settle down in a heterosexual relationship and get married and have biological children.

shoutout to the pan people who have no idea how to even come out to their parents

Shoutout to all the asexual people with parents that think they’re just not ready for sex yet.

Pstttt. If you’re not hetero, you can’t be in a “heterosexual relationship.”

I spent my day Friday crying and sleeping. I had to call off work because I woke up in so much pain that I didn’t want to move. Doctor wants me to do a bunch of tests.
I want to get better because it keeps getting worse despite my denial but I’m really really scared.

Titan aka the Mermaid Moon

Titan aka the Mermaid Moon

A submerged statue of the Hindu Lord Shiva amid the flood waters of the river Ganges, June 17, 2013.

A submerged statue of the Hindu Lord Shiva amid the flood waters of the river Ganges, June 17, 2013.



if you think black women wearing their hair natural is unprofessional you are racist.

In March of 2013 I had the big chop done.  On Friday I had straight hair to my shoulders and on Monday I had a three inch high afro.  Thursday I was in HR fighting for my job because my hair looked “unkempt” “unprofessional” and “ratty”.  I was told that I had to change my hair back to its “original” (Read: What it looked like the previous Friday) condition or I would be fired.   I was told that my hair couldn’t possibly be in an afro naturally and I needed to have it fixed immediately.  My 65 year old white male boss found 4 black doctors and a white tech with dreads to attest to the HR rep that my afro was the way that my hair naturally grew out of my head.  I almost lost my job because of my natural hair.  If I see a white person in an afro wig I lose my fucking mind.  Your natural hair is never thought of as a fad or a violation of a dress code.  Don’t fucking mock mine.  


It really is.




The Defender is a pepper spray that when sprayed takes a picture of the person you’re spraying and sends it the police along with your GPS location, user information, as well as flashing a bright light in the attackers face and emitting a loud alarm.